A Bodey in Motion

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Quick Hits: Being remarkable is hard. I’m no Truther. Weird music is awesome.

  • It's a world of laughter, a world of tears...When organizations grow there’s a temptation to set policies that limit the individual’s ability to make decisions and act outside of their given role. The is pretty common because it’s a way to keep the organization safe from employees who lack the responsibility, loyalty, or competence to be given that much freedom. Unfortunately, it also steals the sense of autonomy a workforce needs to become remarkable, and it leads to most employees to just do their jobs and nothing more. And I say all of that to say this: In an organization as big as Disney’s, it’s fantastic that they still have employees who strive to be remarkable just to save the day for a single young boy. (Now, if they could just get the burger-slingers at Tommorowland to catch that same spirit.)
  • Here’s a useful tidbit of information for the Interwebz: I’m not big into conspiracies. I’m not a Truther. I’m not a Birther. I don’t want to #Occupy anything. I think government has become too big, but I feel that’s more a result of apathy and entropy than dark, hidden forces coordinating it. So, I try to politely avoid engaging conspiracy theorists regarding their obsessions. Sometimes that’s really hard because that’s what they’re all about, and if you don’t agree with them you’re a part of the problem, or even in league the enemy. Still, you’re probably better then that one guy who changed his mind and stop believing the conspiracy. He got death threats.
  • Music is great, but weird music is awesome. For example, my youngest daughter and I love to watch the work of Mike Tompkins. He takes one man a capella to the extreme, covering popular songs by creating all the sounds needed with his “voice and mouth.” Check out his version of We Are Young by fun. and see what I mean. Also, I love good mashups, and no one does it better than DJ Lobsterdust. So, on the same theme, here’s It’s fun to be young at the YMCA.

September 4, 2013 Posted by | Quick Hits and Links | , , , , , , , , , , , | Comments Off on Quick Hits: Being remarkable is hard. I’m no Truther. Weird music is awesome.

Top Posts – Third Quarter 2012

Only three more months to go in 2012. Since the last time we did this, I went to Nashville and got trained as a financial coach by some seriously talented people. We started a new round of FPU (It’s only 9 weeks now, you should check it out). I took a week off for vacation, and now we’re back to your regularly scheduled blog.

Here are the top five posts from the last three months:

  • Kick the Ends Out – The two most irresponsible concepts propagated in the modern era.

October 9, 2012 Posted by | Top Posts | , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , | Comments Off on Top Posts – Third Quarter 2012

A week in California

Last week’s vacation rocked. I wanted to share a few pictures we took, and just a touch of what we did there. Mainly, it gives my mom something to look at and share with her friends, but I’ll try to keep it interesting for the rest of you.

First, I want to say a big “Thanks!” once again to my wife’s sister and her husband, Karen and Doug Yingling, for opening up their home and giving us a place to sleep. Here’s a picture of all the kids together on our first day there.

Everyone's ready to head out to church. Chaos immediately to follow.

You can find out more about Karen and the three beautiful girls she’s adopted from China on her blog. She shared a bunch of her own pictures in her latest post, which includes a beach trip I’m not going to show here.

Her oldest girl, Cami, and our daughter, Karen, really hit it off.  Cami suffered severe burns as a very young child and she is going through several surgeries to repair the damage. I would be lying to say that all of that damage isn’t difficult to see in a child so young, but I’m an adult. All of my kids just saw another kid to play with, and I was very proud of them. If you want to learn a little bit more about Cami’s story, it was covered by the local CBS affiliate in LA and you can watch the video here.

Our first trip to the beach involved tide pools. Starfish were the big hit.

Everyone wants to show off their mussels when they head to the beach. Here are my kids showing off theirs.

We took a couple trips to the local beaches. Our first afternoon there, we headed out to see our good friend Amber Martin at the Portuguese Bend Club. We got a chance to explore some tide pools and get wet in the salt water.

Oh sure, she looks like a happy go lucky beach kid here. Then the water knocked her down and dragged her across the sand. She has a healthy respect for the ocean now.

All the pictures look like everyone had a great time. To be honest, though, neither of the girls were into the ocean that first time out. They both got in deeper water than expected and ended up soaking their clothes. They both got knocked around by the waves. They had more fun on the playground than in the water. My son on the other hand…

The rock he's standing on is surrounded by thigh deep water full of slippery rocks that I had trouble getting across. That's my boy.

...and here he is risking his butt on a rock that was repeatedly splashed by waves while he was out there, posing like a boss next to Amber. Son, you are totally busted, and you don't even know it.

Apparently, my son loves the ocean. A lot. We thought we were raising a big old desert rat, but we learned that he was just getting used to the feel of sand between his toes because he was dreaming of how it would feel with salt water. Silly us.

Speaking of big rats…

Everyone into the spinning pink teacup of doom!

That’s right. We couldn’t get that close to Disneyland without giving the big rat some of our money. (Alright, a lot of our money.) It had been a few years, so we spent three days there. Of course we paid cash for everything. You have to love a vacation that you’re not paying off three months later.

Big Thunder Mountain was a big hit with the older kids. (No, I don't know why he's doing that.)

Disneyland tip #1: Always go in the off season. During the weekdays when California public schools are in session. A month after the school semester starts is excellent. Avoid the holidays and the holiday season.

California Screamin' was a big hit with me and the kids, too. (No, I have idea why she's doing that.)

Disneyland tip #2: If your kids are old enough, ride the coasters using the Single Rider lines. You don’t get to ride together, but you’ll all get to ride more often, and they’re more convenient than Fast Passes.

This little one couldn't get enough of the carousels.

Disneyland tip #3: Never eat at the burger joint in Tomorrowland. Seriously, avoid the quick, fast-food style eateries entirely. They’re outrageously over-priced, the food quality is low, and the service is usually lousy. Eat at the high quality sit down places where they serve you. You’ll pay more, but you’ll walk away pleased with how your money was spent. For example, I highly recommend the Blue Bayou in New Orleans Square.

Tinkerbell! Apparently, in her winter clothes. Which include lacey tights.

The Little Mermaid!

Cinderella! AKA: The princess who has no backbone. How I loathe her.

Disneyland tip #4: Little girls love princesses and fairies. Not so much a tip, I guess, but it’s important to remember when going to Disneyland. You’re not just there for the fun rides. Take the time out to get photographs with characters.

Totally staged this shot. We're at the top of the ferris wheel in California Adventure. On the left you can see a blurry Space Mountain. I'd show you the view from the other side of the car, but that would spoil the magic.

It's the biggest Teddy Bear ever! And it hugs back! She had no fear of the characters at all.

Good trip. Hopefully some great memories for the kids with the family.

Now, back to work.

October 8, 2012 Posted by | Marriage and Family | , , , , , | 4 Comments